December 20, 2007

Merry Christmas 2007!

2007 is drawing to a close. It's hard to imagine that a whole year has passed by again! It has been a good year. God has been very faithful to us, and we praise Him for what He has done, and what He will continue to do in our lives!!
One year ago we moved from Greenville to Garland. About a month prior to our move, James had switched jobs, and we felt the need to be closer to his work. He has now been at Weirs Furniture Village, in technical support, for a little over one year. God has blessed him with a good job, and many opportunities for training that will be very beneficial to him in years to come.

Leaving behind his "musical" job was a difficult thing to do, and we continue to miss those days—but it is something that he felt was the right thing to do, and now, one year later, he feels even more confident that it was the right decision.

Teaching and performing have been able to still be a small part of our lives. Two evenings a week James teaches students for a few hours—and I recently took on one student.

This fall James was able to do some playing with the Dallas Bach Society again, which we both greatly enjoyed—he the playing, and I the getting to attend! :)

James and I have enjoyed a year full of dates! Between our families and our friends the Blair's, we have found ourselves with many wonderful opportunities to go out together! We have enjoyed a variety of things, from tennis to swimming, to eating :) to trips to Wal Mart, to concerts to Christmas shopping! It has been wonderful to have so many chances to steal away together, and we are very grateful to all our babysitters!

In July, we were also able to go on a little get-away overnight for our 3rd anniversary. We returned to our honeymoon spot in Fort Worth, and enjoyed a lovely time together-minus the little snake that attempted to be part of our celebration!! That was an anniversary we will never forget!


Our little Patrick has spent his whole year growing and changing! He is now a little two year old! We find it amazing that he is two—wasn't it just yesterday he was a newborn? But time marches on!! Our two-year-old is a great delight to us. We love watching him grow, and being his parents. He is truly one of our greatest joys, this little boy of ours! We are so grateful to God for blessing us with him. We realize more and more as he grows, how much we need the Lord's wisdom to train him in the ways he should go. (Proverbs 22:6) A big part of his life right now are Choo-Choo trains. He also likes dogs. He thinks the trash truck is kind of interesting, but pretty scary, too! For some reason he calls it a "boy-da-bah" and when he hears it he starts saying that and wanting to be held. Sometimes after he is comforted, he will sit near me and whisper over and over "boy-da-bah, boy-da-bah" - He is a hoot! He also currently loves the movie "Chitty Chitty Bang Bang" and requests multiple times a day to watch it, by saying "Choo Choo" or "Ba Ba. " Partial potty-training is his biggest achievement of late—hooray for having to buy less diapers!! :)

At the beginning of this year, we discovered that Patrick has some food allergies. He is very allergic to eggs and milk, with mild allergies to other things. He seems to be very sensitive to food, and we have had a challenging year trying to figure out what to feed him. He eats a very limited diet—but we are very grateful for the progress he has made so far. We hope he will outgrow some of these things and that God will heal him of his allergies! I never knew that people could have such problems with foods/medicines. It has opened up a whole new—and very difficult—world for me, not to mention poor little Paddy! But he is such a trooper—he handles his limitations really well—eating the same things each day without complaining—and even watching others eat things in front of him with little or no complaining!

This year we saw the Lord provide for us in many amazing ways. One of those ways was through my gallbladder surgery. In December of 2005, we believe that I started to have gallbladder attacks. These continued for a few months, until we had a sonogram which confirmed our suspicions. At the time we had no insurance, plus we wanted to try some natural things. The natural things helped a lot, but I continued to have some problems. In the fall of this year, things started to fit into place for surgery. At that point we still weren’t sure if we could afford it, or if I should have it, but God was at work! Our family and friends put together garage sales which raised over half of the up-front fee we needed! After that, on the exact day we had to pay the rest of the up-front fee, we received a very large sum of money in the mail. God had completely covered the up-front fees!! So on October18th I finally had my gallbladder removed!! What a happy day! After the surgery we found out something interesting. Apparently my gallbladder had been twisted—something the doctor rarely sees. I am so grateful to all our family and friends who helped us out throughout this whole experience. I am so grateful to God for His faithfulness and provision. Without Him and the generosity of our friends, I would not have had my surgery!

Less than a week after that, we were rejoicing with my brother Jedidiah, and his wife Rachel, over the birth of their precious little baby daughter, Kathryn Esther! We have LOVED having a baby in the family again—and Patrick thinks his new cousin is just the greatest thing since sliced toast! He really loves "be e-bee s!!"

That about sums up our big news of 2007. In some ways this has been a hard year. Lots of little struggles-and some big.

It has been a year of tests, and hopefully a year of growing. We know that God is faithful. We know that He takes care of his children.

We hope that it has been a good year for you, and no matter what joys or trials you have faced, that you too have seen Him prove himself faithful and good. May your Christmas be blessed as you remember why Jesus was born—born to die, so that we might be saved!

We wish you a 2008 full of His love, His joy, and His peace!! Merry Christmas!!!!

James, Hope and Patrick Gallagher

December 14, 2007

We are very Blessed...

Today my mom came in as usual. She comes in usually once a week and spends the day with us. It's such a nice time for us and Patrick! Today we went to James' work, and shopped in the country store - then we all had lunch together. What a special time!! After one other stop, we were headed off to pay someone for a glider my mom is buying off of craigslist. At first I noticed the windshield wipers moving slowly....then that the clock wasn't showing the time anymore....then that the car wasn't really responding to my foot pressing harder against the gas pedal....thankfully I was in the right lane and was able to just glide off onto the shoulder. It was cold and rainy-ish - but their was a funeral home across the access rode. I felt nervous about sitting on the shoulder, so I carried P over to seek shelter in the warm dry and safe funeral home. (Mama didn't want to walk all that ways, plus she wanted to keep an eye on the car)


The lady inside graciously allowed us to sit in on their couch while I waited for James to arrive. As I sat there, I was saddened by the thought of people dealing with death at this festive time of year. Of course death is always, always sad - but at Christmas time? I think that's especially sad. A few different people were walking about....what were their stories? Which loved one from their family had died? What is their Christmas day going to feel like without their Father, Mother, Grandparent, Sibling, Relative, Friend or Child? How awful death is - yet, really, if we know Jesus, it doesn't have to be all sad. That can be a comfort. It can be a reason to keep on living - to look forward to Heaven more - but even in those comforts, their are empty spots in our daily lives, that those special people used to fill.


Perhaps too, Christmas and death have always been intertwined in a way - Christmas is a celebration of many things - one of which is the birth and coming to earth of a tiny little baby - our Savior. His purpose for coming to earth was to DIE. When our children are born, we know that they will someday die - but I don't think we expect them to die until they have lived a full life - and we don't view their reason of birth as being death. But that was why Jesus was born. He came to take away the sin of the world - and the only way to do that, was by dying-dying in my place.


Thank you dear God - Thank You for sending Jesus, and for taking away my sin. What a great sacrifice. Thank you also for blessing me with my family - and giving us life.


I'm so grateful to have all my family around me, especially during this Christmas season. Sometimes it can be so easy to take someone in our family for granted....or to be easily "bugged" by them. But we are not guaranteed the next moment. Our lives are not in our hands - they are in His. Only God knows when we will breathe our last breath. Oh that we never, never wasted any of these precious moments with each other.


Lord, please help all those who have lost someone dear to their heart. Hold them in Your arms - comfort them, and lead them to You if they do not know you already.

December 07, 2007

Patrick Is Two (well, almost anyways :) )

Two years ago December 2nd- I was overdue...but it would be another 6 days before our baby would be born......On the icy cold morning of December 8th, at 1:58 am, A BOY was born to us!
We named him Patrick Ghilcrist, which means

"Noble Servant of Christ" Our little Paddy! Even at just a few days old, we could tell that he was a strong little guy, and was determined to tackle whatever was thrown his way - which he did right from the beginning! We called him a little pig, too - he had and continues to have a big appetite!

Our little long one! He was a serious thoughtful guy - even the midwife who delivered him said he reminded her of an "old soul"
Our little social butterfly! He likes to be in on the action - but it wore him out easily and quickly! How we loved this little baby boy!! He changed our lives, and added so much to it!

The months of his first year were flying by! Smiles, Jabbering, Crawling, Pulling up.....Each new step brought us immense joy! Patrick was our dream come true! Both of us had wanted a baby for years!I loved to dress him up and take him out - he was my little dolly!
From the beginning James and Patrick have had a special relationship. James is so good with babies...and he can nearly ALWAYS get a smile or a laugh out of Patrick - they love to be silly together!
Patrick was our little buddy. Always there with us. His adorable little smile and big blue eyes could brighten most any load!We were so excited when he got a high chair! I remember sitting him in it for the first time, and his little legs poking straight out - too short to hang over the sides!This was taken on the eve of his first birthday! Such a petite little fellow he was! He was taking steps at this point, but as you can see, felt safer when he had something to hold onto! :) He has never been the dare-devil type. He is cautious and sensitive. ...and he has a great smile :) but I already said that :)As he grew, so did the messes! :) but that's ok! Someday my house will be perfect, but I will miss the messes then....or, I will miss the little people who used to make them.And as he grew, so did his hair - and surprised us by having some curl! What a delight!!And then, somehow, another whole year went by. Now Patrick can open doors, feed himself, drink from a cup without a lid, use the potty, say some words, use sign language, run, pretend with his toys, make his stuffed bear from Aunt Emily eat, go potty.......he understand a whole lot, even if he can't say the words. He makes noises for cars, fire engines, dogs, monkeys and more!
....he is such a little boy.
And so it should be - because tomorrow my baby will turn two.
When I look at him now, I see very little, if any, "baby" left in his appearance. The baby fat is gone from his legs, and some from his face, too. He is taking on a more grown up look.
I can hardly believe two years have gone by. It is sad - but it is happy. I don't like losing my baby, but I must admit that little boys are more fun than I knew! I love having my little buddy with me each day. Walking next to me now - but still wanting to hold my hand. Keeping me company - waving at people and saying "hi!" - how Patrick blesses my days!
I love you Patrick, more than you may ever know. I hope that your new year is blessed by God - that you learn more and more each day how to do the right thing -the things that God would want you to do. I pray for a long and healthy life for you, that you would know Jesus as your Savior, and that you would be His "Noble Servant" as your name means.
HAPPY 2nd BIRTHDAY MY SON!

November 27, 2007

15 years

This month marks the 15th anniversary of the Beemans and Gallagher's re-meeting (our parents met way back in like 1984, but lost contact with each other) - and eventually James and I meeting! but I don't remember the date that I actually talked with/ met James for the first time.

So, we have known each other (or at least our families have known each other!) for 15 years (plus the "lost" years between '84-'92! :) )


We started courting in 2001


We got engaged Feb. 14th, 2004

And this past July we celebrated 3 years of marriage!!!

In all that time, we've been through a lot together. It's amazing how much! It's almost like we've lived two or three different lives together already!

The early years - back at Garland Bible Church (the place where we met)

Me liking James -

My mom's hospital experience

The very young and in love days...


The Dell Drive days - courting going on forever - it seemed like the day for marriage would never arrive! Yet it has - over three years ago!


Then there was our first year of marriage - just the two of us (and little Patrick on the way part of that year!) My life began a whole new transformation and adjustment. It was if I was an adult for one of the first times in my life!


Memories of our first pregnancy together. Is there anything like it?! All so exciting and scary and life-changing! Going to birthing classes together, riding around in the miserable little truck with no A/C!

Together we experienced the birth of our son. Oh so wonderful, but so difficult, too. Our plans changed, then were changed again when we found out Patrick would have to stay in the hospital for 2 weeks.

James was right there beside me when Patrick entered this world. He was the one who announced whether we had a girl or boy. He was there with me when the Doctors told us about Patrick's strep. He was right there with me during those nearly 2 weeks.

James was the steady one as we adjusted to Parenthood. He has almost always, if not always always :) been the steady one!! Calm, Cool and Collected.

He and I watched our baby grow up together. Together we experienced all the joys of our son's first year. Together we watched him take his first steps.

James and I sat together in the hospital as our precious son threw up, cried and continued to turn more and more red....

He was the one who took time away from work and went with me to the allergy doctors. He has always been there for me as I try new foods on Patrick - always ready to listen with sympathy and care as I rant about how frustrating it all is.

We experienced together the loss of our second child.

We faced a whole new life together last year.

A Job Change. A Move. A New Church.

Thanksgiving day was the one year anniversary of finding out that our little baby had died. That evening I thought about how hard the past year has been. So many difficult things occurred. So many changes - and all bunched up together.

Today is the 1 year anniversary of losing our precious baby. For one whole year he has been gone from our lives.

At breakfast this morning I read Psalm 27. I was thinking some about today's anniversary, and the psalm seemed to fit our life this past year, and the new one coming up in about a month.

The Lord has truly been our light and our salvation throughout all these times. From the day we met, and all that has gone on since then until now.

He will continue to be our shield, because He is faithful.

I am not faithful. There are times when I do not seek a relationship with Him. But even then, He is there for me. Though I may move from Him, He never moves from me. His love is everlasting, enduring forever. Great is His faithfulness.

God has seen us through this difficult year. He has seen us through all the difficult times in these last 15 years.

God has had mercy on us this year, and these last 15 years.

We have sinned and done wrong, but He is always waiting with open arms to forgive us and cleanse us.

Maybe this year will be different. Maybe I can really "let all this stuff go" :) and get serious about my relationship with God. I must believe and seek after Him. And as Psalm 27 says, I must wait. "Wait on the Lord and be of good courage, and He shall strengthen your heart. Wait I say on the Lord"

We've come a long way, haven't we James? God has truly been good to us. Do you remember all the happy, silly, wonderful times we have had?! I remember so much....car rides, wonderful wednesdays, you singing or dancing or whatever it was you did with the broom to "The Marksmen"....so many precious times!

Can you believe, that if God allows, we are going to go through all that much more again? More babies, More good years, More bad years....If God allows, we will continue to go through it together. We will see God continue to be faithful. and we will have all those memories together to be able to look back on.

Thank you James, for wanting to marry me. Thank you for your love, your faithfullness - you truly are a loving and un-selfish husband. I love you! Happy 15 years!!!

October 28, 2007

It's A Girl!!!

* 2nd edit* I tried to fix the video - please let me know if it still isn't working!!
My brother and his wife have had their baby!! Many congratulations to Jedidiah and Rachel and all the Vande Hei's and Beeman's!!! We are all thrilled that this little girl is here!!

Kathryn Esther Beeman

Wednesday October 24th, 2007

3:34 pm * 7 lbs. 8 oz * 22 inches
Kathryn is SO beautiful and precious! Patrick loves the "bebe" as he calls her! He said that often while visiting her, and loved to touch her and kiss her!
My dear brother and sister in law did a wonderful job, and I thank God for answering our prayers and bringing baby Kathryn into the world safely and healthy, and for giving Rachel strength and keeping her safe as well.
As to the votes we made when Rachel was in labor:
Grandmerry Beeman and I voted girl :)
I was the closest in guessing the time, although I was far off! I voted 2:00 am on the morning of the 24th.
Grandmerry was closest to guessing the weight. She guessed 7 lbs. 3 oz. Poppie was close behind with 7 lbs. 14 1/2 oz.
Patrick voted 22 inches :) which was absolutely correct. That's how long he was too!
I'm really sad that I can't upload any pictures here. I've hit my limit until I purchase more space. I'm uploading some to facebook though, so let me know if you'd like me to send you a link!

October 23, 2007

Baby Bee and Various Parenting Musings....

Tonight we are awaiting the arrival of the newest Beeman! Rachel is in labor and we are all so excited, and praying for her, the baby and Jedidiah!!
We can hardly wait, and I'm sure J&R feel the same way!
We five have cast our votes as to when the baby shall arrive etc. etc. - I'll let you know who comes the closest after the wonderful event occurs! :)

Recovery has been going pretty well. It's hard to not be able to lift Patrick, and it's hard to have our life "upset" out of it's normal routine, but it's so worth it, as James reminds me when I fret.

I was reminded today of how much my little son needs a routine - among other things. From the time he was itty bitty he was easily over-stimulated. He needed lots of sleep, yet sometimes fought it, thus making himself and his parents rather miserable.
With the surgery has come the need for people to be over here helping me since I can't lift P. With that has come a change of routine. and more stimulation. Poor little Patrick is having a hard time with the changes and excitement. He is also testing the waters. Fun times indeed. But we shall make it. And we are ever grateful for the help of those willing to come spend the day here with me lifting Patrick etc. etc.!

Patrick's personality continues to bloom - and as it does, I can look back and think -hey! he used to make that look when he was "little!" For quite awhile now he has had very definite opinions of how he wants things to go. Things of play etc. etc. - he has planned out just how he wants them to go - and he gets rather upset if anyone suggest something different!

It's amazing how different it is to have a child of your own vs. just babysitting. It's so true that love covers a multitude of sins.
It's a really neat thing to be able to compare our imperfect but oh so strong love for our children, no matter what they do, to the perfect and oh so much stronger love that God has for us. It's a great hope when we feel like surely God couldn't love us after this or that thing that we've done. I mean, last night my son threw a terrible terrible fit - totally out of control awful behaviour. Yet that night my heart was full of love for him. To think that God feels like that (and so much more/better) towards us! It's encouraging!!!

The 21st marked the one year anniversary of finding out I was pregnant with Jamie. So many milestones to pass after that loss. Still some more coming up in November, too. Almost a year since I've been pregnant. That's the longest I've gone since getting married. It was 8 months until there was Patrick, then about 9 months before there was Jamie.

Well, James was up until about 3:30 am - then up around 6:30, so he is already in bed. Perhaps I shall head that direction here soon, since I will hopefully be making a trip to visit the new baby tonight!

Have a wonderful evening! Hopefully soon there will be a big "IT's a GIRL or BOY" posty!!!

October 18, 2007

Thank you all SO much for your kind words and prayers about my surgery today! It's all done and I am so excited! Everything went really well, and we found out something very interesting. Apparently I had a pretty rare thing wrong with my gallbladder - it was twisted! This cannot be found out usually without surgery, and can actually be dangerous if not taken care of sometimes.

I'm so grateful to God for taking care of me today, guiding the doctor's hands, providing financially, calming my nerves, guiding my husband in the right direction (that I should have the surgery) etc. etc.....God is SO good to me. I'm SO grateful to each of you for praying for me, too! Thank you so much.


Recovery is going well. My mom was here today, and my husband was too, of course. He was so sweet to me, and is taking wonderful care of me.

Thank you all again for praying! It's such a HAPPY day for me - like the beginning of a new life! Thank you, God!

October 14, 2007

What's Up....

Time is just flying right by!

We've had some exciting news in the last couple of weeks. First we found out my cousin Jason and his wife, Carolyn are expecting their first baby! We were thrilled to hear that! Then we found out that my other cousin, Trisha, and her husband Gustavo are also expecting their first baby! We were thrilled again. It's so exciting to have these precious little ones on their way into our family. I cannot wait.

Speaking of not being able to wait-I cannot wait for the very close (we hope anyways!) arrival my brother and his wife's first baby, Baby Bee! I'm SO SO SO excited to see that precious little one. My brother's having a baby! It's so exciting and so amazing! (well, he's not having it, but ya know :) ) Pray for Rachel and the precious baby as you think of them. I hope she has a fast and as easy as possible labor, and that it is a wonderful experience for her!

Yesterday we got the letter about the end of our lease here at the apartments coming up - December 31st. I'm excited about the prospects up ahead. I hope we can find a nice little house to rent somewhere. It will be so nice to have a backyard!!

This coming Thursday I am having Gallbladder surgery. Please pray for me, as I am nervous. At the same time, I am very excited and grateful to God.
This has been such a long thing for me. So many times of pain and not knowing what to do....
What we believe was my first big bout with my gallbladder was way back when I was/thought I was in labor with Patrick! So, it has been a long time. Thankfully I stopped having attacks in late June/early July of '06, but It still gives me some pain-and although I did pass some stones we think, the sonogram showed that I have a mass of something in there still.

I wasn't sure if I should have my gallbladder out. We went ahead though and set up surgery for October 18th. The surgery center needed $2000 dollars before the surgery. We didn't have that, but our dear, dear family and friends from our old Church put on a garage sale to help with our medical bills.
Because of them we made a payment last month of over half the fee. We are so grateful to those people who gave of their things, time and energy. Thank you all SO much! I know it was a lot of work. We are truly grateful to everyone who helped. What a blessing you all have been-and what love you have shown us!! May God bless you for your kindness, love, hard work and generosity!

I was still unsure of what I should do about the surgery, but my dear husband said he thought it was what we should do, and decided this week to go ahead and pay the rest of the fee, even though it would make things tight for us....and do you know what the Lord did? First he made it possible for James to play some gigs this week (even with his full time job) giving us more money than usual.
THEN, on the very day James paid the surgery center, there came a letter to our mail box with $500 in it! What an amazing God we have! He is so gracious to me. So many times I grumble and complain...say and think horrible things....yet he turns around and gives us these great gifts! He is merciful and good to me-I am so undeserving of both!
The gift in the mail was anonymous....so, if that person happens to read this, please know how very much you blessed us by your gift. We are very grateful. Thank you SO much!!

So Thursday is the big day. It's such a huge thing for me. This gallbladder adventure has been long-seems like so long to me....it's amazing to think it's coming to an end. Of course I know that you can have problems from not having your gallbladder, so please pray that I won't have any, and that everything will go fine with surgery. It's my first surgery so of course I'm nervous. Probably would be even if it wasn't my first.

So, that's what's up. James is off at his last concert, and I'm going to go relax and watch a movie! Hope everyone is doing well!

October 09, 2007

Longing for a Circle....with love to my "Complete Circle"!!

Have you ever been removed from your "circle" before?

I have been removed various times before, but the last time has been the hardest, I think. Maybe it's because I'm grown up now, and more aware of things. Or maybe it's because of other circumstances happening at the same time.

What I'm talking about is your life. What makes up your day to day, who you see, what you do....The people and places to whom and where you belong.

I know, we truly belong to God. and of course there are our families. But there is more, too.

Nearly a year ago my life began changing. This has been a year of change - and now, I find myself without a circle.

...I like to "do the computer" as I call it. Reading peoples blogs, a forum, facebook....and as I do, I notice the conversations between friends. Girls talking to girls about babysitting for each other, getting together for coffee, going on outings together.

While doing this, I also observe the happenings of people from my old circle. Still together. Their lives still going on. And here I am. Removed.
Not because of anything they did, and not because they don't keep up with me. Things have just changed.
Parts of my life and heart that used to be filled are now empty.
This hurts.
I long for a circle. I long for my old circle. I long to belong. Have "my people."

But I'm stuck in the middle of two worlds right now.
I don't belong to my old circle.
I don't belong to our new circle.

Time will fill these empty places in my heart. A lot can happen with time. It always seems to hurt a little though, the affect of time, I mean.....for as time marches on, unfamiliar things become the norm, and familiar things become dear memories of the past.

I've thought some about my old circles. Looking at memento's reminded me of the people who made up my life 5-10-15 years ago.
All those different people were my life during different seasons of my 25 years.

Many of those people are still my friends today. DEAR friends....but they no longer make up my day to day, right-in-front-of-me life circle. It's a little sad to have been so close to so many people, and then every 5 years or so be removed and start over again!

I know there's a flip side, too. How wonderful to get to know so many people, and have their influences on my life!....

...So, here's to all my friends from my whole life: Thanks for being a part of my life. I may not see you from day to day anymore, but you are not forgotten!
Thanks for helping make up my complete circle! ;)

October 04, 2007

A Thoughtful Thing...



I have such a thoughtful and patient and loving husband!
This is what he brought me after I had had a hard day.
Isn't he sweet?!

October 03, 2007

Rachel's Baby Shower!





Of course we have nick-named the baby "Baby Bee" :)

Trying to figure out how many jelly beans were in the baby bottle!


Grandmerry Beeman! Poppie Beeman! Aunt Hope with The Mommy-to-be! Rachel participates in the Busy Mommy relay race!
Others waiting their turn :)
The lovely Mother
Mrs. Landry giving a devotional
The guests...
Opening gifts!

Can't wait for the precious baby to arrive!